Power has a way of flowing towards people managers over time, no matter how many times you repeat “management is not a promotion, it’s a career change.”

It’s natural, like water flowing downhill. Managers are privy to performance reviews and other personal information that they need to do their jobs, and they tend to be more practiced communicators. Managers facilitate a lot of decision-making and routing of people and data and things, and it’s very easy to slip into making the all decisions rather than empowering people to make them. Sometimes you want to just hand out assignments and order everyone to do as told. (er, just me??)

But if you let all the power drift over to the engineering managers, pretty soon it doesn’t look so great to be an engineer. Now you have people becoming managers for all the wrong reasons, or everyone saying they want to be a manager, or engineers just tuning out and turning in their homework (or quitting). We all want autonomy and impact, we all crave a seat at the table. You need to work harder to save those seats for non-managers.

So, in the spirit of the enumerated rights and responsibilities of our musty Constitution, here are some of the commitments we make to our engineers at Honeycomb — and some of the expectations we have for managering and engineering roles. Some of them mirror each other, and others are very different.

(Incidentally, I find it helpful to practice visualizing the org chart hierarchies upside down — placing managers below their teams as support structure rather than perched atop.)

Engineer’s Bill of Rights

1. You should be free to go heads down and focus, and trust that your manager will tap you when you are needed (or would want to be included).
2. We will invest in you as a leader, just like we invest in managers. Everybody will have opportunities to develop their leadership and interpersonal skills.
3. Technical decisions must remain the provenance of engineers, not managers.
4. You deserve to know how well you are performing, and to hear it early and often if you aren’t meeting expectations.
5. On call should not substantially impact your life, sleep, or health (other than carrying your devices around). If it does, we will fix it.
6. Your code reviews should be turned around in 24 hours or less, under ordinary circumstances.
7. You should have a career path that challenges you and contributes to your personal life goals, with the coaching and support you need to get there.
8. You should substantially choose your own work, in consultation with your manager and based on our business goals. This is not a democracy, but you will have a voice in our planning process.
9. You should be able to do your work whether in or out of the office. When you’re working remotely, your team will loop you in and have your back.

Engineer’s responsibilities

• Make forward progress on your projects every week. Be transparent.
• Make forward progress on your career every quarter. Push your limits.
• Build a relationship of trust and mutual vulnerability with your manager and team, and invest in those relationships.
• Know where you stand: how well are you performing, how quickly are you growing?
• Develop your technical judgment and leadership skills. Own and be accountable for engineering outcomes. Ask for help when you need it, give help when asked.
• Give feedback early and often, receive feedback gracefully. Practice both saying no and hearing no. Let people retract and try again if it doesn’t come out quite right.
• Own your time and actively manage your calendar. Spend your attention tokens mindfully.

Manager’s responsibilities

• Recruit and hire and train your team. Foster a sense of solidarity and “teaminess” as well as real emotional safety.
• Care for every engineer on your team. Support them in their career trajectory, personal goals, work/life balance, and inter- and intra-team dynamics.
• Give feedback early and often. Receive feedback gracefully. Always say the hard things, but say them with love.
• Move us relentlessly forward, watching out for overengineering and work that doesn’t contribute to our goals. Ensure redundancy/coverage of critical areas.
• Own the quarterly planning process for your team, be accountable for the goals you set. Allocate resources by communicating priorities and recruiting eng leads. Add focus or urgency where needed.
• Own your time and attention. Be accessible. Actively manage your calendar. Try not to make your emotions everyone else’s problems (but do lean on your own manager and your peers for support).
• Make your own personal growth and self-care a priority. Model the values and traits we want our engineers to pattern themselves after.
• Stay vulnerable.

I’d love to hear from anyone else who has a list like this.